The thing about good lasting relationships is that they always involve strong, willful sacrifices by both partners. What those sacrifices are depends on the nature of the relationship and the personalities of each partner. But whatever they are, for the relationship to last and flourish both sides must whole-heartedly make them. That doesn't necessarily mean that you'll be happy in making the sacrifice, but you must determine within yourself that the love you have for your partner is worthy of it. Being able to sacrifice certain things for the happiness of your significant other is the true test of, well... true love.VampD3 wrote:For example when me and Angelus first started going out (well maybe a few months) things were a bit tense between us as we clashed a few times and found out things about each other that we weren't to keen on (like you do in alot of relationships)
I quoted Vamp here because I think it shows exactly that. It is a testament to their love that, though they had many problems earlier in the relationship, they are now happily together and making the best of things. Unfortunately, as long as the wheel of fortune continues its cycle through this life of ours, the trials of love will never cease. A couple must keep on making sacrifices for the sake of its relationship when circumstances change from day to day. As each individual grows within the relationship, however, it becomes easier to make such sacrifices, for the love that is established in previous sacrifices sustains the faith of each partner in its worth and stability.
Just my two cents (or or should I say pence?)