Rest in peace, angel.

This forum is for off-topic discussion. You may talk about all things non-AGDI related here. No links to warez, abandonware, and no Flaming please.

Moderators: adeyke, VampD3, eriqchang, Angelus3K

Message
Author
User avatar
Vildern
The Sleepy Specter
Posts: 3547
Joined: Fri Dec 06, 2002 1:21 am

Rest in peace, angel.

#1 Post by Vildern » Mon Mar 28, 2005 8:27 pm

At 7:00 AM, this morning, March 28th, my mother passed away, after a four month struggle against lungs cancer. She didn't lose hope 'till the very last minute. It's a great shock for all of us here. I think a hundred people came to the funeral, which took place several hours later.

Rest in peace, my eternal love.

It is likely that in a while from now I won't get online, as I'll leave this rented apartment, which I've come to know as home for the last ten years, and move away to live with my grandma, where there is no connection to the internet.

User avatar
Fribbi
The Icelandic Guest
Posts: 1696
Joined: Thu Aug 09, 2001 7:49 pm

#2 Post by Fribbi » Mon Mar 28, 2005 8:34 pm

That is really a sad news.  :(  Take care Vildern.

Your mother are now in healthier and painless world.

User avatar
Angelus3K
Vampiric Moderator
Posts: 3968
Joined: Wed Feb 05, 2003 6:54 am
Location: Newcastle, UK
Contact:

#3 Post by Angelus3K » Mon Mar 28, 2005 9:03 pm

OMG! Vil I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope your doing ok. Before you move make sure to PM us with your address so we can keep in contact.

We're so sorry for your loss Vil, I'm sure she is resting in peace now.

Jafar
Super Star
Posts: 1128
Joined: Sun Jan 19, 2003 12:31 pm
Location: Lemming land
Contact:

#4 Post by Jafar » Mon Mar 28, 2005 9:06 pm

I'm very sorry to hear that. :(
Take care.

Steffi Evenstar
Defense Minister Status
Posts: 651
Joined: Sat Jan 11, 2003 4:30 am
Location: Baltimore, MD

#5 Post by Steffi Evenstar » Mon Mar 28, 2005 10:13 pm

(a) יתגדל ויתקדש שמה רבא. אמן בעלמא די ברא כרעותה וימלך מלכותה, בחייכון וביומיכון ובחיי דכל בית ישראל, בעגלא ובזמן קריב. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(b) יהא שמה רבא מברך לעלם ולעלמי עלמיא.
(c) יהא שמה רבא מברך לעלם ולעלמי עלמיא.
(d) יתברך וישתבח ויתפאר ויתרומם ויתנשא ויתהדר ויתעלה ויתהלל שמא דקדשא
(e) בריך הוא
(f) לעלא מן כל
(g) לעלא ולעלא מכל
(h) ברכתא ושירתא תשבחתא ונחמתא, דאמירן בעלמא. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(i) יהא שלמא רבא מן שמיא, וחיים
(j) טובים
(k) עלינו ועל כל ישראל. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(l) עשה שלום במרומיו, הוא יעשה שלום עלינו, ועל כל ישראל. ואמרו אמן. אמן








Yis'ga'dal v'yis'kadash sh'may ra'bbo, b'olmo dee'vro chir'usay v'yamlich malchu'say, b'chayaychon uv'yomay'chon uv'chayay d'chol bais Yisroel, ba'agolo u'viz'man koriv; v'imru Omein.
    Y'hay shmay rabbo m'vorach l'olam ul'olmay olmayo.
    Yisborach v'yishtabach v'yispoar v'yisromam v'yismasay, v'yishador v'yis'aleh v'yisalal, shmay d'kudsho, brich hu, l'aylo min kl birchoso v'sheeroso, tush'bechoso v'nechemoso, da,ameeran b'olmo; vimru Omein.
    Y'hay shlomo rabbo min sh'mayo, v'chayim alaynu v'al kol Yisroel; v'imru Omein.
    Oseh sholom bimromov, hu ya'aseh sholom olaynu, v'al kol yisroel; vimru Omein.

i'm so sorry, vildern.  please, let me know of some way i can keep in touch with you if you can't be online.

i'm definetly thinking of you out here.

Erpy
Forum Administrator
Posts: 11434
Joined: Tue Sep 25, 2001 8:28 pm
Location: The Netherlands

#6 Post by Erpy » Mon Mar 28, 2005 10:17 pm

I'm very sorry to hear this and wish you good luck in dealing with this loss. My sincere condolences.

Image

Boogeyman
Knight Status
Posts: 384
Joined: Sat May 08, 2004 5:55 am
Location: deadfall beneath Ooga Booga

#7 Post by Boogeyman » Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:13 pm

Mine too.

Vildern, if you won't have an Internet connection, how are you going to get QFG2VGA when it is released?

Broomie
The Enigma
Posts: 2601
Joined: Thu Jan 02, 2003 1:00 am
Location: UK

#8 Post by Broomie » Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:22 pm

I'm terribly sorry to hear that Vildern. My deepest sympathies.

Meerbat
The Winged Suricate
Posts: 238
Joined: Mon May 05, 2003 9:08 am
Location: Here today...

#9 Post by Meerbat » Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:22 pm

I am so sorry to hear that she didn't make it, Vil...
I wish you strength to cope with this grave loss.

ThreeHeadedMonkey
Knight Status
Posts: 304
Joined: Thu Dec 11, 2003 4:18 pm
Location: The Netherlands

Re:

#10 Post by ThreeHeadedMonkey » Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:24 pm

Boogeyman wrote:Vildern, if you won't have an Internet connection, how are you going to get QFG2VGA when it is released?
I don't think that's the first thing on his mind right now.

I'm very sorry to hear this. Best of luck to you and your family.

rosel1
Knight Status
Posts: 436
Joined: Sat May 01, 2004 3:08 pm

#11 Post by rosel1 » Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:32 pm

Vildern, My deepest condolences to you and your family.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Please PM me with your address, so we can stay in touch.

navynuke04
Honorary AGD
Posts: 5378
Joined: Fri Sep 13, 2002 1:19 am
Location: US of A
Contact:

#12 Post by navynuke04 » Tue Mar 29, 2005 3:05 am

Sorry to hear about this Vil. My heart goes out to you.

Def Zeppelin
Royal Servant Status
Posts: 138
Joined: Sat Feb 12, 2005 8:01 am

#13 Post by Def Zeppelin » Tue Mar 29, 2005 3:27 am

I know how this feels, my mom passed away when I was 12 from pneumonia.  I was raised by my Grandmother and it wasn't bad.  GL to you, and your family.  I wish the best for you.

Charlemagne
Canadian Pundit
Posts: 445
Joined: Sat Jan 24, 2004 8:25 am
Location: Ontario, Canada

#14 Post by Charlemagne » Tue Mar 29, 2005 4:53 am

Please accept my deepest and most heartfelt condolences, my friend. Please send me a PM so we can stay in touch.

Swift
Dungeon Mistress
Posts: 1332
Joined: Sat Apr 12, 2003 5:44 pm
Contact:

#15 Post by Swift » Tue Mar 29, 2005 4:56 am

Very sorry to hear that. Please accept my condolences as well. Take care.

VampD3
Queen of the Night and Moderator
Posts: 2350
Joined: Fri Jan 24, 2003 5:22 pm
Location: Newcastle, UK
Contact:

#16 Post by VampD3 » Tue Mar 29, 2005 7:45 am

Vildern, I don't know what to say. We have been through so much together and always been there for each other in the past years. I'm so sorry vil!! You will get through this and you'll be even stronger for it.

Just remember you haven't lost her she will always be in your heart and memories and through that she is still always with you.

The bond between a mother and child can never be broken even now. Again I am so sorry Vildern and I hope everything will work out for you. I'm here if you need to chat and don't forget to mail me with your address so we can keep in touch.

Klytos
Infamous Sheik of Australia
Posts: 1722
Joined: Tue Apr 22, 2003 3:43 pm
Location: Rockhampton Australia
Contact:

#17 Post by Klytos » Tue Mar 29, 2005 9:20 am

Sorry to hear that Vildern.

Alias
Royal Vizier Status
Posts: 1614
Joined: Sat Aug 28, 2004 11:08 pm

#18 Post by Alias » Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:23 am

I knew you're mother was sick, I didn't know she was that bad. Im sorry Vildren, I hope you'll stay strong. PM me you're phone number, I'll be sure to stay in touch man.  :(

Amayirot Akago
Royal Servant Status
Posts: 114
Joined: Fri Apr 09, 2004 10:13 am
Location: Out of my mind

#19 Post by Amayirot Akago » Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:30 am

Sorry to hear that. Best of luck to you.

User avatar
Vildern
The Sleepy Specter
Posts: 3547
Joined: Fri Dec 06, 2002 1:21 am

#20 Post by Vildern » Tue Mar 29, 2005 9:52 pm

Def Zeppelin wrote: I was raised by my Grandmother and it wasn't bad.
I'd like to hear more about your experience. PM me, if you prefer.

It's a jewish costum to mourn for seven days, so I won't be moving out to my grandma in the next 7-10 days.
VampD3 wrote:Just remember you haven't lost her she will always be in your heart and memories and through that she is still always with you.
I know, I know... but it's her grave pain and sudden death that kill me. She was only 47... oh god...

User avatar
Parhelion
Royal Servant Status
Posts: 108
Joined: Mon Aug 02, 2004 5:11 am

#21 Post by Parhelion » Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:56 pm

I'm very sorry about your loss, Vildern.  I can't imagine how you must feel right now.  If something happened to my mother, I just don't know what I would do.  I'm sure that your mother was a wonderful woman having raised such a cool person as yourself, and I'm sure that she left this world happier knowing that she had raised such a fine son.  My family will be praying for you and for your family during this difficult time.

PotatoSlayer
Knight Status
Posts: 220
Joined: Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:40 am
Location: Jax Beach, Florida
Contact:

#22 Post by PotatoSlayer » Wed Mar 30, 2005 1:47 am

yeah dude i don't know what i'd do without my mom, really sorry man.  good luck though... :(

User avatar
Senor Matt
Knight Status
Posts: 280
Joined: Wed Aug 04, 2004 7:58 am

#23 Post by Senor Matt » Wed Mar 30, 2005 1:49 am

I know what it's like to lose a parent to cancer. I lost my father to lung cancer when I was 18.  You have my condolences and my assurance that the pain will subside.  I wish there was more I could do. :(  :)

MusicallyInspired
The Master of All Things Musical
Posts: 4030
Joined: Tue Aug 20, 2002 8:57 pm
Location: Manitoba, Canada

#24 Post by MusicallyInspired » Wed Mar 30, 2005 5:21 am

My most sincere condolences and best wishes to you, Vildern. Sorry about the loss. :( That is bad news. I have no idea what that would be like. I can't even begin to imagine, I can only wonder what you must be going through.

We'll miss you here, dude. Take care.

VampD3
Queen of the Night and Moderator
Posts: 2350
Joined: Fri Jan 24, 2003 5:22 pm
Location: Newcastle, UK
Contact:

#25 Post by VampD3 » Wed Mar 30, 2005 7:03 am

but it's her grave pain and sudden death that kill me
She wouldn't have been in pain towards the end though Vil. I obviously don't know for sure but most people report feeling the happiest in there whole life just before passing away no pain at all. I know its not nice to talk about. She's put of pain now and a sudden death is better than a long winded one.

Try to think of the good times vil and hang on to those. It teaches you to grab life everyday not just let it slip away as you don't know how long you have. Again I am so sorry Vil ~hug~

Post Reply