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Rest in peace, angel.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 8:27 pm
by Vildern
At 7:00 AM, this morning, March 28th, my mother passed away, after a four month struggle against lungs cancer. She didn't lose hope 'till the very last minute. It's a great shock for all of us here. I think a hundred people came to the funeral, which took place several hours later.

Rest in peace, my eternal love.

It is likely that in a while from now I won't get online, as I'll leave this rented apartment, which I've come to know as home for the last ten years, and move away to live with my grandma, where there is no connection to the internet.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 8:34 pm
by Fribbi
That is really a sad news.  :(  Take care Vildern.

Your mother are now in healthier and painless world.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 9:03 pm
by Angelus3K
OMG! Vil I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope your doing ok. Before you move make sure to PM us with your address so we can keep in contact.

We're so sorry for your loss Vil, I'm sure she is resting in peace now.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 9:06 pm
by Jafar
I'm very sorry to hear that. :(
Take care.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 10:13 pm
by Steffi Evenstar
(a) יתגדל ויתקדש שמה רבא. אמן בעלמא די ברא כרעותה וימלך מלכותה, בחייכון וביומיכון ובחיי דכל בית ישראל, בעגלא ובזמן קריב. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(b) יהא שמה רבא מברך לעלם ולעלמי עלמיא.
(c) יהא שמה רבא מברך לעלם ולעלמי עלמיא.
(d) יתברך וישתבח ויתפאר ויתרומם ויתנשא ויתהדר ויתעלה ויתהלל שמא דקדשא
(e) בריך הוא
(f) לעלא מן כל
(g) לעלא ולעלא מכל
(h) ברכתא ושירתא תשבחתא ונחמתא, דאמירן בעלמא. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(i) יהא שלמא רבא מן שמיא, וחיים
(j) טובים
(k) עלינו ועל כל ישראל. ואמרו אמן. אמן
(l) עשה שלום במרומיו, הוא יעשה שלום עלינו, ועל כל ישראל. ואמרו אמן. אמן








Yis'ga'dal v'yis'kadash sh'may ra'bbo, b'olmo dee'vro chir'usay v'yamlich malchu'say, b'chayaychon uv'yomay'chon uv'chayay d'chol bais Yisroel, ba'agolo u'viz'man koriv; v'imru Omein.
    Y'hay shmay rabbo m'vorach l'olam ul'olmay olmayo.
    Yisborach v'yishtabach v'yispoar v'yisromam v'yismasay, v'yishador v'yis'aleh v'yisalal, shmay d'kudsho, brich hu, l'aylo min kl birchoso v'sheeroso, tush'bechoso v'nechemoso, da,ameeran b'olmo; vimru Omein.
    Y'hay shlomo rabbo min sh'mayo, v'chayim alaynu v'al kol Yisroel; v'imru Omein.
    Oseh sholom bimromov, hu ya'aseh sholom olaynu, v'al kol yisroel; vimru Omein.

i'm so sorry, vildern.  please, let me know of some way i can keep in touch with you if you can't be online.

i'm definetly thinking of you out here.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 10:17 pm
by Erpy
I'm very sorry to hear this and wish you good luck in dealing with this loss. My sincere condolences.

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Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:13 pm
by Boogeyman
Mine too.

Vildern, if you won't have an Internet connection, how are you going to get QFG2VGA when it is released?

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:22 pm
by Broomie
I'm terribly sorry to hear that Vildern. My deepest sympathies.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:22 pm
by Meerbat
I am so sorry to hear that she didn't make it, Vil...
I wish you strength to cope with this grave loss.

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Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:24 pm
by ThreeHeadedMonkey
Boogeyman wrote:Vildern, if you won't have an Internet connection, how are you going to get QFG2VGA when it is released?
I don't think that's the first thing on his mind right now.

I'm very sorry to hear this. Best of luck to you and your family.

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:32 pm
by rosel1
Vildern, My deepest condolences to you and your family.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Please PM me with your address, so we can stay in touch.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 3:05 am
by navynuke04
Sorry to hear about this Vil. My heart goes out to you.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 3:27 am
by Def Zeppelin
I know how this feels, my mom passed away when I was 12 from pneumonia.  I was raised by my Grandmother and it wasn't bad.  GL to you, and your family.  I wish the best for you.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 4:53 am
by Charlemagne
Please accept my deepest and most heartfelt condolences, my friend. Please send me a PM so we can stay in touch.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 4:56 am
by Swift
Very sorry to hear that. Please accept my condolences as well. Take care.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 7:45 am
by VampD3
Vildern, I don't know what to say. We have been through so much together and always been there for each other in the past years. I'm so sorry vil!! You will get through this and you'll be even stronger for it.

Just remember you haven't lost her she will always be in your heart and memories and through that she is still always with you.

The bond between a mother and child can never be broken even now. Again I am so sorry Vildern and I hope everything will work out for you. I'm here if you need to chat and don't forget to mail me with your address so we can keep in touch.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 9:20 am
by Klytos
Sorry to hear that Vildern.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:23 am
by Alias
I knew you're mother was sick, I didn't know she was that bad. Im sorry Vildren, I hope you'll stay strong. PM me you're phone number, I'll be sure to stay in touch man.  :(

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:30 am
by Amayirot Akago
Sorry to hear that. Best of luck to you.

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 9:52 pm
by Vildern
Def Zeppelin wrote: I was raised by my Grandmother and it wasn't bad.
I'd like to hear more about your experience. PM me, if you prefer.

It's a jewish costum to mourn for seven days, so I won't be moving out to my grandma in the next 7-10 days.
VampD3 wrote:Just remember you haven't lost her she will always be in your heart and memories and through that she is still always with you.
I know, I know... but it's her grave pain and sudden death that kill me. She was only 47... oh god...

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 11:56 pm
by Parhelion
I'm very sorry about your loss, Vildern.  I can't imagine how you must feel right now.  If something happened to my mother, I just don't know what I would do.  I'm sure that your mother was a wonderful woman having raised such a cool person as yourself, and I'm sure that she left this world happier knowing that she had raised such a fine son.  My family will be praying for you and for your family during this difficult time.

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 1:47 am
by PotatoSlayer
yeah dude i don't know what i'd do without my mom, really sorry man.  good luck though... :(

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 1:49 am
by Senor Matt
I know what it's like to lose a parent to cancer. I lost my father to lung cancer when I was 18.  You have my condolences and my assurance that the pain will subside.  I wish there was more I could do. :(  :)

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 5:21 am
by MusicallyInspired
My most sincere condolences and best wishes to you, Vildern. Sorry about the loss. :( That is bad news. I have no idea what that would be like. I can't even begin to imagine, I can only wonder what you must be going through.

We'll miss you here, dude. Take care.

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 7:03 am
by VampD3
but it's her grave pain and sudden death that kill me
She wouldn't have been in pain towards the end though Vil. I obviously don't know for sure but most people report feeling the happiest in there whole life just before passing away no pain at all. I know its not nice to talk about. She's put of pain now and a sudden death is better than a long winded one.

Try to think of the good times vil and hang on to those. It teaches you to grab life everyday not just let it slip away as you don't know how long you have. Again I am so sorry Vil ~hug~